The same foundation, different education, different grades of children! Sohu –

The same foundation, different education, different grades of children! This paper | Sohu – mother son Lei and Ding Ding are classmates, is living in a district, the time of kindergarten, two people in a block, then learn something not too much, learning degree is the teacher said this be roughly the same, two children are very smart, the learning achievement is be roughly the same from Zhong Bo children at primary school, their parents have changed the way of education, the children now in grade 3, learning achievement is very different. We parents are strict, mother is the senior personnel, now know that competitive pressure, so the son is particularly severe, fear of the future society is to eliminate, attaches great importance to children’s learning achievement, the weekend will give children a lot of remedial classes, usually on his son’s performance is also very tight grasp, son entered primary school in the parents under pressure, do result is ideal, but slowly for a long time, the child may feel tired, gradually some do, now the performance decline is very powerful, parents can not afford to lose is very anxious, because often learn things called the child, increasing pressure applied to the child more, finally even ran away from home to the great grandmother. Compared with Ding Ding’s parents are not as Ding Ding, after primary school, the parents of his son’s grades didn’t seem to care, to outsiders, sometimes feel busy career regardless of his son’s parents, in fact, Ding Ding’s parents are more relaxed and the parents, the child is so small, do not want to put too much pressure for the children, although usually did not interfere with the child’s learning, but to meet children with learning difficulties, or to answer very happy, for when the child is living and learning problems, is very careful to guide, in Ding Ding’s heart, parents are very intimate, so in the study is also more sensible, more seriously, now learning achievement is very good, also very stable. In fact, there is a strange phenomenon in life, parents do not care about the children more achievements, like children’s performance better, parents in some areas more lazy, children may be more outstanding, in fact, this is all very well. Parents let go of children, in the monitoring of their range, let the children grow up and learn independently, provide help when necessary, sometimes it is good for children, blindly interfere children, not to children how good. Conducting children love to beat is because of what? What’s the matter with the child’s temper? Children always love to watch TV play how to guide the phone? Does your child help with the housework at home? Children usually pay attention to extracurricular reading? The child crying in kindergarten how to do? If you have these doubts: please pay attention to WeChat public number: [mother’s reading]. Just to be a kid! There is no school in the world can be more important than the mother’s reading!相关的主题文章: